When family and friends of Faith Evans and Stevie J found out that they got married, Faith apparently a song she recently did with Stevie called “A Minute.” The song talks about how it only takes a minute to fall in love.

Family members revealed to TMZ that the couple didn’t give anyone a heads up that they were even thinking about marriage. When they made the decision, Faith was in L.A. and Stevie was in Atlanta for LHHATL, so the last minute Vegas trip left everyone shook. Faith told her family that Stevie went to her Tuesday and told her they needed to get married that same day! Her son CJ Wallace, is also reportedly really upset about the situation and get this—he’s Stevie’s godson.

The family source did say they think that if Faith told her family and friends, prior to the wedding they would have tried to talk her out of it.